A new kink con by first time organizers, and my first since the pandemic started. I didn’t post beforehand because it would have been all nerves and anticipation. There were a lot of people on the RSVP list, a lot Continue reading GFA Reflections
A group of kinky friends went away for a long weekend in the woods. It was absolutely delightful. A relaxing few days of food, fellowship, and floating. Salt water is so much better than chlorine. Also, fruit snacks might be Continue reading Kinky Getaway
Had it all planned out. The three of us ride in together, set up, Bratting as Service class, scene with Him, scene with new partner, then DM, tear down and home. Then came a really rough week, and the storms. Continue reading People Plan, The Gods Laugh
At public play parties, there are always scene limitations. Time limits on furniture. Party space rule limitations. Event time limitations. Personal pubic play limits. Last night, I had a few moments of fear over bad weather limitations – would both Continue reading Scene Limits
The last post discussed intentions and insecurities. This post will be about results. Or results so far. The next post will be more about how it turned out. Let me explain. After the last post, negotiating began in earnest with Continue reading Good Communication = Good Results
I’ve been in the local community for something like 16 years at this point, and I’m still not great at asking for what I want. We’re back to monthly education parties, though He and I aren’t running them anymore, thank Continue reading Play and Negotiations
I was sharing this blog with a new person this week, and I glanced through my 30 Days of Kink from 2011 and was highly amused at some of the things I said. So, in an effort to keep drop Continue reading 30 Days of Kink, 2023 Edition
Curiosity is my own worst best enemy friend in kink. I say no out of habit to new things if they seem scary. But if it is someone I know, like, trust, enjoy, I never stop there. My brain processes Continue reading Pain in Joy
Pack a bag, put in at least four hanks of rope and three toys you want to play with tonight. I picked the toy bag without the shoulder strap because it was easier to empty out and refill than the Continue reading Naked in the Woods with a Flogger
Big news: I got to go UP! Timings and spoons and everything worked out this month for flying at ROCO. We got there plenty early and got everything set up for the group and then two fly points, one strap Continue reading Up-date